You only need to listen to the story of this man to understand what "complicated" or a "conundrum" really means.
Max (not his real name) has just discovered intimacy with his wife comes at a big cost for her, what's worse, there is no medical solution to the situation.
So how to solve this problem?
Speaking to Joyce Onyemuwa on Confessions Thursday on Sunny Side, he explains how his wife and in-laws came up with a "perfect" solution to fix the problem.
He also explains why religion and morals wasn't factored into this decision.
Watch video to hear his full story.